Condolences: We extend aroha and sympathy to our Helensville GRG
Co-ordinator Maree Hemana, grand-daughters Tamara and Leah, on the
passing of a loved husband and grandfather. To Maree’s extended
whanau our deepest sympathy. Fred will be sorely missed.
Speedy Recovery: We send speedy get well messages to Bonnie Williams
our North Shore GRG Co-ordinator for her husband Greg who was injured
in an accident. After spending sometime in Middlemore Hospital Greg
is now recovering at home.
New Community Service Cards posted in March:
Please check the valid and expiry dates on these, it has come to
our attention that some are wrong giving valid dates of 1999 and
expiry dates of 2000. Phone: 0800 999 999 for a replacement.
Volunteer of the Year Award West Auckland:
GRG Support Group Co-ordinator Dominique Young was awarded this
honour from Wadscos Waitakere. Congratulations Dominique.
New Born Babies under Care of Grandparents/Whanau:
This payment helps with the costs of a new baby – for the
first 56 days after your baby is born. If you were the principal
child carer for a child during the first 56 days you may be entitled
to Parental Tax Credit. You could get up to $1200 depending on your
family income. But if you received accident compensation payments,
an income tested benefit, Student Allowance or New Zealand Superannuation
during the first eight weeks after your child was born, your entitlements
could be affected. This is something the GRG Trust has just become
aware of and will benefit those of you who are raising a new born.
To find out more about Family Assistance, call Inland Revenue on
0800 227 773 or visit www.ird.govt.nz .
GRG Trust office phone calls:
These have increased over the month of February to an average of
68 calls per week, with March jumping up to 89 per week. We are
busy!
GRANDPARENTS LIFT THE LID ON RAISING GRANDCHILDREN
Media Release:
“Grandparents fulfilling the role as parents to their grandchildren
are doing their bit under the Children Young Persons and Their Families
Act to keep children together with their siblings and families,
but they are getting a raw deal from the Government, Child Youth
and Family, Work and Income New Zealand staff and the justice system,”
says Jill Worrall. Jill Worrall spoke to an audience of judges and
lawyers at the 4th Annual Child Law 2005 Conference in Auckland
today (11th March 2005).
A trustee of the Grandparents Raising Grandchildren Charitable
Trust and Honorary Research Associate at the School of Social and
Cultural Studies at Massey University in Auckland, Jill Worrall
today released a Research Report, commissioned by the Trust following
a survey of 324 grandparents and other kin caregivers across New
Zealand.
The research represents the largest quantitative and qualitative
analysis undertaken in New Zealand or Australasia covering the issues
grandparents, in particular, and other family members such as aunts,
uncles and even great grandparents are experiencing as they struggle
to cope with raising children placed in their care when the parents,
for various reasons, are unfit or unable to care for them.
Among the key concerns outlined by Ms Worrall at the conference
was the incidence of grandparents paying considerable legal fees
(either paying privately or through Statutory Legal Aid Charges)
to obtain custody and guardianship of their grandchildren –
often at the behest of Child Youth and Family where the child/ren
are considered at risk and in need of care and protection.
The report also illustrates that while fulfilling the same role
as foster caregivers, providing stability, security and safety for
the children, the grandparents are typically left to cope on their
own with the legal costs, counselling, medical, clothing, schooling,
and accommodation costs at a time when many of them have retired,
down-sized their homes or have health concerns of their own.
Often the only financial support available for the children is
the Unsupported Child Allowance which is considerably less than
what is available for foster care parents and nearly half of the
respondents in this survey reported that they were not receiving
it at all. One grandmother in the survey on superannuation cared
for five grandchildren over a period of 12 years after her two daughters
died and has only received the UCB since 2003 because no one previously
told her she was eligible for any sort of financial assistance.
The children were aged 18 months, 3, 4, 5 and 17 years respectively
when they came into her care.
On top of all the day to day pressures of raising these children,
the report further illustrates that many of the grandparents are
also having to go to Court to defend ongoing applications from parents,
who are challenging their custodial status as primary caregivers
in circumstances where there is little realistic prospect of the
parents being in a position to adequately provide and care for their
children. Many of the grandparents also live in fear of attacks
of physical violence or psychological abuse from these parents.
“This research confirms what the Trust has known anecdotally
for the past several years,” says Diane Vivian, National Convenor
of the Trust. “There is a real crisis in the care of children
by extended family or grandparents in New Zealand and we have been
telling the Government for a long time that it is simply unjust
for children at risk to be so disadvantaged simply because they
are now being cared for by extended family instead of by strangers.
There must be equity in the system and we must make sure that these
children and their caregivers get the financial and social support
they need.”
Mrs Vivian also points out that, “In many cases these grandparents
will be dead in the next 10-20 years and these children are the
next generation of adults in our society. They need proper support
now if they have any chance of being productive members of society
rather than following the example of their parents into a life of
crime, drug and alcohol abuse, violence and ultimately abuse of
their own children in future.”
The report’s findings show that most of the grandparents
providing the primary day to day care are doing so under considerable
stress financially, emotionally and socially. The research shows
that:
§ 82.69% of caregivers are over 50 years of age with a significant
proportion (43%) of them aged over 60
§ 58.9% of the caregivers had a deterioration in their health
since assuming the primary care of the children
§ 37.4% of caregivers are caring for the grandchildren on
their own
§ 37% of the caregivers were caring for their grandchildren
on an income of less than $20,000 per annum, with a further 29.2%
on an income of $20,000-$40,000 per annum. Less than one quarter
have an income over $40,000
§ Parental relationship breakdown is a common feature for
the children being cared for by their grandparents
§ The major cause of placement with grandparents is drug (40.255%)
and alcohol (29.10%) abuse and neglect (as a co-existing state).
§ The age of the parents at the time grandparents assumed
primary care of their children was also analysed. The largest cohort
for both genders was in the 20-30 year age group. The figures tend
to debunk any theory grandparents are for the most part assuming
the care of children of teenage parents.
§ Nearly 25% of the caregivers have been caring for their
grandchildren since birth, with drug/alcohol abuse, mental illness,
abandonment, parental incapacity or incapability being cited as
the principal reason for the placements.
§ Nearly 85% of the respondents in the survey reported that
the children in their care suffered from physical illness or disability
with Asthma being the most prevalent condition (30%)
§ Behavioural and psychological problems of various types
were reported with 22.91% reporting severe aggressive behaviour,
18% reporting destructive behaviour (to property and persons), 17.34%
reporting conduct disorder and 21.67% with ADD or ADHD, with 18.58%
citing Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
§ 77% reported that they had not received any financial assistance
to pay for the specialist fees and medical costs associated with
their grandchildren’s physical and/or psychological problems.
Among the key recommendations in the Ms Worrall’s report
to the Government, its agencies and the courts are that:
· Kin/whanau caregivers must receive adequate income support
commensurate with Foster Care Board Payments and financial support
that is reflective of the particular needs of children placed with
kin/whanau.
· WINZ workers should be better educated with respect to
the income support entitlements of grandparent and kin caregivers,
particularly in relation to the UCB and other benefits they are
entitled to in addition to the UCB
· Judges need to focus more on the need of children to have
placement stability and they should be more proactive in the prevention
of on-going custody challenges by disingenuous parties who place
their own needs above that of their children and put their children’s
stability and security in jeopardy.
· Respite care, day care, after school care, free medical
care and free counselling should be provided as a matter of course
for kin/whanau caregivers, particularly grandparents.
· Where a child has been under the care of Child Youth and
Family, all legal expenses incurred to achieve kin/whanau custody
and/or guardianship should be paid for by the State. Similarly Grandparents
gaining permanent custody/guardianship of their grandchildren should
not be liable to repay legal aid payments.
The above is a minute taste of this rich data, the complete research
is 77 pages. Copies of this research is available from the Trust
Office please enclose a cheque for $20 to cover costs. If you are
a member of GRG and listed on our database we can offer you a discounted
at cost copy for $10. Please post a cheque with your name and address
details please.
This research does have copyright therefore you are NOT allowed
to photocopy it.
On behalf of my fellow Trustee’s I would really like to acknowledge
fellow Trustee Jill Worrall for her excellent work in this research.
Jill spent hundreds of hours on this valuable research, pro bono
(at no cost) such is her passion for us all in what we do. Jill,
thank you seems inadequate, but it comes from the bottom of our
hearts. To Kate Woodd (Trustee) and all of you who completed this
questionnaire thank you so much for your input, what would we do
without you all: God bless.
Unsupported Child benefit:
The GRG Research tells us that many GRG’s are not accessing
the UCB, we know there are many different reasons why this is so.
But what does concern us, is the fact as our financial situation
changes and lessens the financial needs of the children as they
grow, increase. You need this UCB to help out with the many increasing
costs of the children. Sometimes this is a judgement call that only
you can make. Some do not want to rock the boat; others fear shame
at going to WINZ, this we understand as we hear it so often from
our members. You must do what is right for you and your situation
and carefully weigh it all up.
Every Child Counts
Support needed for major campaign
A realisation that New Zealand could do better for its children
has led 180 individuals and organisations to start a joint campaign
to promote the interests of children and families in the lead up
to the 2005 election.
Every Child Counts is a non-party political campaign with a simple
message. Children and families must be central to policy if New
Zealand is to thrive socially and economically. Placing children
and families as the centre of policy will lead to:
fewer children growing up in poverty
fewer children growing up experiencing violence
public policy being more child and family centred.
Organisations leading the project are Barnardos, UNICEF New Zealand,
Save the Children, Royal New Zealand Plunket Society and the Institute
of Public Policy, Auckland University of Technology. Other organisations
and individuals have signed up as supporters.
A key element of the campaign is to have a huge list of personal
and organisational supporters from across New Zealand telling all
political parties to take more notice of children and families.
To sign up as a supporter, or for more information, contact: Every
Child Counts, PO Box 6434, Wellington. Or email: everychildcounts@barnardos.org.nz,
or phone 04 385 7560. There are no membership fees, and no specific
obligations – simply list your name as a supporter. GRG Trust
are a supporter of this.
Read more about Every Child Counts on www.everychildcounts.org.nz
.
From Grand Marianne:
Ones Life certainly changes when Grandchildren arrive,
suddenly we become extra alive!
We are asked for help, hints and advice,
then a Grand tends to be worth a special price.
When one day her daughter needed constant care,
the little one is placed in Grandma’s arms with a tear.
She loved to see the child so small,
although no social activities or clubs at all.
The task she took on with love,
some remarked she’d win a place above.
She replied Grandchildren whether yours or mine,
are heaven sent and are a special gift divine.
Marianne cared for her grandchild when an infant at 64 - now the
lad is nearly 15 & 6 foot tall, she hopes to live to see him
achieve and become a good all-rounder - which he is at present.
Which means Marianne is a remarkable 79!
Need Help and don’t know where to go:
Now there is one confidential FREE number to access community support,
8am – 9pm, 7 days a week. 0800 211211.
We have had some changes for our support group co-ordinators:
So here are the new listings(see following). We have another 2
new groups starting, one in Norsewood and the other in Gore.
EAST/WEST
19 & 20
April
9.00 am - 4.00 pm
Wanganui
CI
EAST/WEST
28 & 29
April
Gis/Wairoa
LI
Wellington Area
7 & 8
April
Porirua
LI
Wellington Area
12 & 13
April
Porirua
CI
Wellington Area
14 & 15
April
Evening & Day
Lower Hutt
LI
These courses are FREE for any person looking after someone else’s
child on a full time basis, and they are NOT just for Child, Youth
and Family Caregiver’s only. The courses are fun to attend,
and are a wonderful way to meet with other Caregivers. It doesn’t
matter how long you have been a Caregiver – there is always
something new to learn. Some support is available to help with childcare
and transport costs. Currently there are 9 courses, with each usually
run over two consecutive days, or as organised, to cover the Caregivers
needs in a particular area. If you complete all of the courses,
you then have the opportunity to pursue the National Certificate
in Family/Whanau Foster Care, which is due to be released shortly.
For bookings, please contact the Caregiver Training Coordinator
directly, by phone (04) 913 2168, fax (04) 914 4473, or contact
the Training Coordinator direct on 0800 227 305 (0800 CARE 'O'K),
and ask to be referred to Maxine Carroll.
WELLINGTON FIG
From Australia -
In a speech to State Parliament last night (Tuesday, March 8) Member
for Nicklin Peter Wellington flagged the introduction of his Private
Member’s Bill which would give grandparents, who are the sole
carers of their grandchildren, the same benefits as foster carers.
He said many grandparents who had taken on the care of their grandchildren
were in desperate financial situations. “Many of these people
are almost destitute and live below the poverty line,” he
said. “While their pensions or superannuation may have provided
enough for one or even two to live on, it doesn’t come close
to covering the needs of caring for school age children as well.
“The majority of these grandparents are over 55, some are
over 65. They have raised their own families and just when they
should be enjoying life and taking it easy, they have had to start
all over again. It’s a very sad situation and they deserve
our help. “My Bill will ensure that grandparents caring for
grandchildren get the same help as foster carers because in reality,
they are doing the same job.
Mr Wellington said that his Private Members Bill would amend the
Queensland Child Protection Act to give the chief executive the
power to put the grandparents on the same support allowances as
those of foster carers. He said he hoped to introduce it into Parliament
in the near future. “I sincerely hope that all members of
Parliament will recognise the importance of this Bill and support
it,” he said.
In his speech, Mr. Wellington asked Treasurer Terry MacKenroth
to factor the financial costs of his Bill into this year’s
budget due to be brought down in June.
From New York. USA -
GOVERNOR PATAKI SIGNS LAW TO SUPPORT GRANDPARENTS
Expands Options for Grandparents to Raise Their Grandchildren
Governor George E. Pataki today continued his historic commitment
to New York State's children and families by announcing that he
has signed legislation expanding custodial options to grandparents
who are primary caregivers for their grandchildren. Additionally,
grandparents wishing to provide care for their grandchildren who
are removed from their parents' home due to abuse or neglect, are
now to be informed by local departments of social services that
they have the option of becoming foster parents.
"All children deserve a loving and nurturing home, and grandparents
are sometimes called upon to play the primary role in the upbringing
of their grandchildren," Governor Pataki said. "By recognizing
the importance many grandparents play in raising their grandchildren,
and by providing them the support they may need to maintain permanency,
we can assist them in their vital role as caregivers."
Provisions of the new law include:
Specifically providing grandparents legal standing when seeking
custody of their grandchildren in certain circumstances. Requiring
local social services officials to locate all of the grandparents
of a child who the courts deem must be placed in out-of- home care.
Requiring that grandparents be advised of the opportunity, and the
resources available to them, to become foster parents. Senator Steve
Saland said, "I am extremely pleased that the Governor has
signed this important legislation into law.
While in most cases, a child's best interest is served by remaining
with his or her parents, unfortunately this is not always the case.
In many instances a grandparent has assumed the responsibility of
primary caregiver. This law will enable the courts to recognize
that role. In addition, this new provision will help to prevent
the needless suffering of children when uprooted from their homes
and give grandparents greater opportunity to provide a loving and
stable home to their grandchildren."
Assemblyman Roger Green said, "Many grandparents now act as
a primary caregiver to their grandchildren. This law will protect
children from being uprooted and removed from loving homes in those
cases where a birth parent has not shown a willingness to care for
a child. In some cases, grandparents are the best viable guardian
of a child. I therefore commend Governor Pataki for signing this
law into effect on behalf of the many grandparents who work hard
to provide a safe, nurturing home for their grandchildren. This
is a wonderful day for grandparents and their grandchildren and
the great State of New York."
Senator Kenneth LaValle said, "I have long advocated for legislation
that protects the rights of grandparents while respecting the parent/child
relationship. In New York alone, it is reported that 413,000 children
are being raised in their grandparents' home. The enactment of this
bill is important because it recognizes the changing and more active
role of grandparents in their grandchildren's lives and provides
grandparents certain rights with regards to custody and visitation
of their grandchildren."
New York State Office of Children and Family Services (OCFS) Commissioner
John A. Johnson said, "Governor Pataki is committed to providing
New York State's families with the resources and support to help
them grow stronger together. Signing this bill into law demonstrates
the Governor's ongoing commitment to helping children grow up in
safe and stable homes so they can reach their full potential, and
to helping provide support for grandparents who assume primary responsibility
for a child."
New York State Office for the Aging (SOFA) Acting Director Neal
E. Lane said, "This new law is a victory for every individual
grandparent who loves and cares for their grandchild. This law gives
them the legal standing they need to properly care for their grandchildren
and to allow those children to grow up in a home where they feel
safe and loved."
According to the 2000 census, approximately 412,000 grandparents
in New York State are caring for a child under the age of 18 living
in their home. Approximately 35 percent of those grandparents, more
than 140,000, take primary responsibility for raising a related
child.
Last year, Governor Pataki announced the award of 19 grants totalling
$1.5 million to support initiatives developed by not-for-profit
and other nongovernmental agencies to assist relatives caring for
children. The grants are administered by OCFS in conjunction with
SOFA to encourage organizations to offer services that help children
make an easy transition to living with and being raised by relatives.
Changes are happening around the world for grandparents who raise
grandchildren and with the release of our internal research we will
continue to push for changes within NZ.
E te Atua, aroha mai..... O God shower us with love.